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  • DownAndOut
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    • 02 Dec `07, 10:56AM

      i saw this pretty cute girl somewhere and i somehow know that shes working only till today.. i wanna get to know her but i scared of rejection.. T_T
      so im here to ask opinions.. to ask or not to ask for her number?

  • dbowie
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  • Lin Yu
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  • eagle
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    • 02 Dec `07, 11:04AM

      Just go and ask la. No special method, just open your mouth and ask.

      Ask already then come back post what to do

  • dbowie
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  • DownAndOut
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  • angel7030
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    10,159 posts since Jul '07
    • 02 Dec `07, 3:25PM
      Originally posted by DownAndOut:
      i saw this pretty cute girl somewhere and i somehow know that shes working only till today.. i wanna get to know her but i scared of rejection.. T_T
      so im here to ask opinions.. to ask or not to ask for her number?

      We gals are very scare of giving off h/p nos, this is because sometime when we give, there are so many calls per day that we have to change nos again, and also sometime that boy may give nos to all his other frens or wrote in some toilet or places and state our name and h/p nos, resulting in people call us and asking how much is the price!!!

      So, dun just go in and ask for nos, get to know her first, prove your sincerity, wait for her, ask her out, if she likes you, she will give u her nos for easy communciation. Dun be shy ya, we are not lionness. Happy courting.

  • aremeis
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    256 posts since Nov '07
    • 02 Dec `07, 6:43PM

      I do not think it is wise to go for her h/p no. point blank. I think a subtle greeting and casual issues are good ice breakers and then conclude by saying that you enjoyed talkiing with her and would like to continue this conversation......then pleasantly offer her your cell phone number with your messenger id.... Smile

  • Isis
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  • ifish
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    2,278 posts since Dec '06
    • 02 Dec `07, 8:05PM

      u mean she salesgal?? try approach after work la..

      ppl working then u disturb.

      if not, can try smiling at her first if she smile back then just walk over la.. say hi or some thing then go introduce yourself.

      always work one..

  • rain-coat
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  • Nadare
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    1,920 posts since Sep '02
    • 02 Dec `07, 11:34PM

      from my experience… just ask… if she gives u … good.. if not .. just say thanks then walk away…. no point thinking about losing face cos u won’t die or what if u get rejected…

  • de_middle
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    16,175 posts since Aug '05
    • 03 Dec `07, 11:12AM
      Originally posted by Lin Yu:
      to ask, you stand a little chance.
      not to ask, you know you don't stand a chance at all Laughing Laughing

      fantastic way of putting it Laughing

  • selfobliged
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    1,154 posts since Jul '07
    • 03 Dec `07, 11:17AM
      Originally posted by DownAndOut:
      i saw this pretty cute girl somewhere and i somehow know that shes working only till today.. i wanna get to know her but i scared of rejection.. T_T
      so im here to ask opinions.. to ask or not to ask for her number?

      ask her if there's any way to contact her.

  • angel7030
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    10,159 posts since Jul '07
    • 03 Dec `07, 3:00PM

      Since u are so lame to ask or approach her, I suggest you go home, ask mommy to make some milk for you, drink it and go to sleep nice nice..

  • Aaron8209
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  • Hanagata
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    2,193 posts since Apr '03
    • 03 Dec `07, 3:02PM
      Originally posted by angel7030:
      Since u are so lame to ask or approach her, I suggest you go home, ask mommy to make some milk for you, drink it and go to sleep nice nice..

      lols don't be so bad lah....

      to TS

      ask and get reject better then not trying you will never know what you get until you try...

  • MyParentsDunWanMe
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    353 posts since Aug '07
  • Daisuke-kun
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    15,021 posts since Jun '07
    • 03 Dec `07, 3:03PM

      o.
      so ur that person who has been stalking my fren.
      i tellin u.
      get away from her!!!

  • angel7030
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    10,159 posts since Jul '07
    • 03 Dec `07, 4:02PM
      Originally posted by Hanagata:
      lols don't be so bad lah....

      to TS

      ask and get reject better then not trying you will never know what you get until you try...

      Yes, I am bad, but if u look at the brigher side, I am using reverse psychology, some boys need to push abit with harsher intimating words to get them moving. If not, they will remain lame forever and in the end dun tell me we gals have to go against the rules of courting and be shameful to ask them for phone nos instead of them asking us.

      I am an Angel, bad and condemned by many, but with a good heart.

      As stated, there are more women than men in Singapore, and if men are becoming more introvert and opt for foreign gals, we Sggals will be history.

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