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i broke up with my gf last night...to my surprise, i felt better in terms of feeling...
we have been together for 4 months plus... we were very happily togther for the first three month till recently, she got her new job and meet up with her colleagues and told me that got 4 colleague like her and confess love to her. she asking me whether can go out with them.. of course i say no and but she insist wan to go but i insist to bring me along and was rejected in the end...when they going out.. i try to call her and ask her whether she reach hm..but she kept rejected my calls and dun wan to reply my sms or took a few hours to reply me... the more things i found out from her were she went out same colleague to dinner, movie, ktv and go sentosa beach together...i was so angry that i told her how sad am i and she promised me not to do it again and will treat me like before...i;m such a fool and believe that....the things happened again.... i really can not take it.. and i told her i wanna to break up with her..and she just said ok...that was so obvious...hai... one thing i can;t take it is why she has no courage to settle this type od matter face to face..or maybe on the phone..why over sms....at the end of the day...i think i did somethi right...
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alwaysdisturbed, u felt cheated rite? u intial the break up even though u still love her..
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thanks casuarina...its a lesson for me anyway...more experience indeed..
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Originally posted by HuaGe:alwaysdisturbed, u felt cheated rite? u intial the break up even though u still love her..
not really, its human nature to want the best for themselves. if i can't make her stay now, i doubt she'll be able to resist to better options in future. so let it be. just make sure she don't come running back.overall i didn't expect it to happen on her but life is full of unpredictable things. narrow the risk, keep an open mind.
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HuaGe, Im sure things will get better once youve understood the whole thing.
The funny part about this is, the more you give, the less you gonna get in return. But the lesser you give, the chances are, you will get so much more. Sounds wierd?
Let me explain it like this; when you give it all, the other party notices this and will almost always take you for granted. That is what probably happened in your case.
While Im not saying that you should go out and play around, the key is to make more friends and keep all options open.
Once that someone special finally decides to settle down with you, then it is the right time to give it all....
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