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hi.
my gf who has broken up w me few days back told me today that she is unable to let go. feel lost without me.
i was so miserable. i couldnt let go too.
she asked me to be with her, still be thr for her, be around in her life but not in r/s. cuz she thinks that having a rs stresses her.. the word rs makes her feel tied down.
asked me consider.
should i??
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Originally posted by pyjamasgirl:
hi.
my gf who has broken up w me few days back told me today that she is unable to let go. feel lost without me.
i was so miserable. i couldnt let go too.
she asked me to be with her, still be thr for her, be around in her life but not in r/s. cuz she thinks that having a rs stresses her.. the word rs makes her feel tied down.
asked me consider.
should i??
up to u... since u cannot let go yet then stick to it but gradually breakoff or if ur tactics worked then can be back fulltime....
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
??????
Very confusing.
So, she wants you to be her fark buddy issit ?
What is no string attached relationshiP?
probably means uh, non-monogamy? free to date around?
to pyjamasgirl: very much depends on your feelings towards her.... doesnt mean that if she said shes returning, cant let go and you have to accept. Is she the one who initiate the breakup or is it you? I guess she just wants somebody to be around.... to ahem ahem when bored but dont relate it as r/s
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From wat i observed.."No String Attached" kindda r'ship are 'adult games' tat involves great deal of maturity so tat one is able to handle/control the emotions tat may comes with it. Moreover, "No String Attached" r'ship is STILL a r'ship.
No advisable, really..She onli wants to play ard, it's a pretty irresponsible attitude i must say.
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if both of u are on the same page... then it is ok that u have a NSA relationship....
however, if not, then a nsa r/s is not advisable....
same page, means that you guys can define what you mean by a nsa relationship.. does it mean that you can date other people? or what??
Are you both in the same state of mind... in that both parties know that it is 'impossible' long term for both of u... or is one party harbouring thougghts or getting back with each other...
also have the both of you thought about what to do when one party found another partner... and want to be exclusive to her/him?
if u can both agree to the above..... then nsa is 'wonderful' and is the most ideal solution.
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yea, agree with spencer
i mean, if both of you are of the same frequency, both allow the other party to date around, then it's good to go.. like why not. Just have a talk and discuss
but if your not, you prefer to have 1 partner only, and you couldnt take it that she swings around, then nope, it's not for you.
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