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Logincant get over him
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yea, i did confess to A, but that was more than a year ago. but he liked another girl then, he confessed to that girl and it didnt work out. we were very very close throughout this entire year. not to mention we were great friends since young. i didnt wanna confess another time because i didnt wanna jeopardise our friendship.
so about 2 mths ago, i realised that i should just stop being stupid, and forget about him. and i almost did. until our clique of friends met up again the other day, and i found out i couldnt get over him at all.
B appeared in the midst of me wanting to forget about A. he pays alot of attention to me, and always takes the initiative. i thought he could take my attention away from A. but it didnt happen.
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i dont know if this is being selfish. cuz B hasnt told me anything yet, theres also a high chance that im just a friend to him.
yep, university next year for A and me. i have been so stubborn because i know no matter how hard i try, no one can take the place of A. i can only keep waiting. im not trying to use B to replace A. he just happened to be there.
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Originally posted by iwishiwilliwould:
i dont know if this is being selfish. cuz B hasnt told me anything yet, theres also a high chance that im just a friend to him.
yep, university next year for A and me. i have been so stubborn because i know no matter how hard i try, no one can take the place of A. i can only keep waiting. im not trying to use B to replace A. he just happened to be there.
go with B. see reaction of A.
if A jealous, u noe some feelings of him for u.
if A is boh chap, forget him. give a chance to B.
taken from glenn frey "the one you love".
Are you gonna stay with the one who loves you,
or are you going back to the one you love.
someone gonna cry when he knows he lost you,
someone gonna thank the stars above...Edited by Rednano 17 Aug `08, 10:41PM
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yepp. i went out with B already. and when A knew about it, i realise he didnt laugh along with our clique at first, but after that he did. i dont know if he felt anything. i think he did, or i hope he did. i cant tell. i really cant tell.
i didnt go out with B to make A jealous. i really wanted to give us a chance. but it really didnt work.
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Originally posted by iwishiwilliwould:
A is my friend of many years. its like super awakward to tell him again.
B is not my kinda guy. he just made me realise how much i still like A.
its such a complicated situation.
if like that, then u just go focus on ur studies lah. still young.
like the song i quoted its chorus, the scenario is u may marry a guy whom u love wholeheartedly, but the guy's true love is not u. vice versa too.
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rulzgboi. yes yes yes. that is what i feel. cuz im right now vexed over my education issues, so i dont know if my mood changed cus of him or other matters.
no matter how good B appears to be, he will never be able to replace A. so even if a C or D or E appears, it will still be the same. i tried so hard to get over him. but look at where i am now.
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Originally posted by Rulzgboi:
iwishiwilliwould, i truely understand how u feel.U feel torturing and deenergise everyday.feel very tiring and often have mood change.U have no energy to begin a new love relationship.I am right?
GOOD DIAGNOSIS! But you missed out the most important part after diagnosis - Cure/Solution. So basically your diagnosis is like the government.
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