She told him that she's pregnant..

The guy told her to go for abortion straight away & she refused..She just told the guy that why should she go through the danger of abortion alone? And, why must she bear the burden alone?

The guy told the girl that his mother will not want the child either..And, he is still struggling to pay for his monthly sch fees..hence..he don't have the cash to get married either..

The girl told the guy that since they created this trouble for themselves..shouldn't they share the responsibility tgt? The guy objected to the idea agressively & even asked the girl if she's going to pay for all those fees (in maintaining the child) if they got married, as he doesn't have any savings at all..

He kept co-ercing the girl to go for abortion in b/w the conversation..

He even told the girl that if she wants to keep the child..so be it..and, that he will give a "monthly maintenance fee" for this child & they shall go their separate ways from there..

The girl requested to meet up with the guy to have a chat...the guy told her : "what's the point of meeting up when he has already made up his mind?..since there's nth to talk abt..we just break up over the phone immediately..."

he even blames the girl for calling him up to tell him about this issue as he was out for a gathering with his friends..

he even said : "that's y..i hate answering calls in the middle of an outing..."

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what kind of f**king attitude is that?..make her pregnant & run away? is that the kind of responsible SG guy that exist nowadays?..should the girl really go for abortion & start afresh? both of them are in their mid 20s..

p.s : is a real incident....

dont strerotype all SG guys pls... that fucker is just a fucking player... thats all.
no commitment sex without condom.

even they got married, they r doomed to divorce soon with a typical shotgun marriage case study.

best is advise the girl to give birth and put up for adoption under MCYS...

http://app.mcys.gov.sg/web/faml_supfaml_adoption.asp

http://fcd.ecitizen.gov.sg/ChildrenNParenthood/AdoptAChild/AdoptionProcess/LocalAdoption/

MCYS Adoption Service
512 Thomson Road
12th Storey MCYS Building
Singapore 298136
Hotline: 6355 6388
Fax: 6358 2375
E-mail: MCYS_Adoption@mcys.gov.sg

Originally posted by xiiaostarry:

She told him that she's pregnant..

The guy told her to go for abortion straight away & she refused..She just told the guy that why should she go through the danger of abortion alone? And, why must she bear the burden alone?

The guy told the girl that his mother will not want the child either..And, he is still struggling to pay for his monthly sch fees..hence..he don't have the cash to get married either..

The girl told the guy that since they created this trouble for themselves..shouldn't they share the responsibility tgt? The guy objected to the idea agressively & even asked the girl if she's going to pay for all those fees (in maintaining the child) if they got married, as he doesn't have any savings at all..

He kept co-ercing the girl to go for abortion in b/w the conversation..

He even told the girl that if she wants to keep the child..so be it..and, that he will give a "monthly maintenance fee" for this child & they shall go their separate ways from there..

The girl requested to meet up with the guy to have a chat...the guy told her : "what's the point of meeting up when he has already made up his mind?..since there's nth to talk abt..we just break up over the phone immediately..."

he even blames the girl for calling him up to tell him about this issue as he was out for a gathering with his friends..

he even said : "that's y..i hate answering calls in the middle of an outing..."

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what kind of f**king attitude is that?..make her pregnant & run away? is that the kind of responsible SG guy that exist nowadays?..should the girl really go for abortion & start afresh? both of them are in their mid 20s..

p.s : is a real incident....

 

I agree with your real incident, I also got a friend who also got the same thing from her bf. He was super sweet to her while persuading her to abort the baby, and I kept asking her not to abort the baby cos I'm quite sure her bf will leave her once the baby is aborted (Her bf was secretly going after me behind her back, and so I know). So my dumb but pretty friend went for an abortion believing in the love, trust that she valued so much in her bf, and got dumped 1 week after the abortion.

My friend till now still doesn't know the truth why her bf dumped her and still blames herself for causing the breakup. But anyway, she's now living in Japan and starting a new life there.

And yes, such SG Guys exists in SG. So with my minimum 30k ring policy, such SG guys will be thoroughly filtered out and they won't stand a chance at all.

Would you like to join my minimum 30k ring crusade?

Originally posted by parn:

 

I agree with your real incident, I also got a friend who also got the same thing from her bf. He was super sweet to her while persuading her to abort the baby, and I kept asking her not to abort the baby cos I'm quite sure her bf will leave her once the baby is aborted (Her bf was secretly going after me behind her back, and so I know). So my dumb but pretty friend went for an abortion believing in the love, trust that she valued so much in her bf, and got dumped 1 week after the abortion.

My friend till now still doesn't know the truth why her bf dumped her and still blames herself for causing the breakup. But anyway, she's now living in Japan and starting a new life there.

And yes, such SG Guys exists in SG. So with my minimum 30k ring policy, such SG guys will be thoroughly filtered out and they won't stand a chance at all.

Would you like to join my minimum 30k ring crusade?

this people better get struck by lighting.. if my gf were to have my baby.. i ensure you.. my parents will be opening champange to celebrate.... but thar will never happen.. cos i don't belive in sex before marriage

Originally posted by parn:

 

I agree with your real incident, I also got a friend who also got the same thing from her bf. He was super sweet to her while persuading her to abort the baby, and I kept asking her not to abort the baby cos I'm quite sure her bf will leave her once the baby is aborted (Her bf was secretly going after me behind her back, and so I know). So my dumb but pretty friend went for an abortion believing in the love, trust that she valued so much in her bf, and got dumped 1 week after the abortion.

My friend till now still doesn't know the truth why her bf dumped her and still blames herself for causing the breakup. But anyway, she's now living in Japan and starting a new life there.

And yes, such SG Guys exists in SG. So with my minimum 30k ring policy, such SG guys will be thoroughly filtered out and they won't stand a chance at all.

Would you like to join my minimum 30k ring crusade?

haha..30k ring + 1 unlimited credit limit Platinum card? doesnt tt sounds better?

my friend is still looking into the possibility of patching things up with this guy though...

silly right?..

she should go for abortion @ the current circumstances..but..she just simply can't bring herself to...so now..she's really in a dilemna at what path should she take?

Plan A : Abortion?

Plan B : give Birth?

well, sad case. . .

what happen to all those safe sex adverts??

Originally posted by xiiaostarry:

haha..30k ring + 1 unlimited credit limit Platinum card? doesnt tt sounds better?

 

Ooooh yes

Originally posted by xiiaostarry:

my friend is still looking into the possibility of patching things up with this guy though...

silly right?..

she should go for abortion @ the current circumstances..but..she just simply can't bring herself to...so now..she's really in a dilemna at what path should she take?

Plan A : Abortion?

Plan B : give Birth?

Give birth , any guy who asks to abort his own baby isn't worth it.

Originally posted by maskedangel:

well, sad case. . .

what happen to all those safe sex adverts??

can only say that my friend is naive..

now then i believe that those true life accounts under Dear Kelly in Teenage Magazines are real =.='''

Originally posted by XxYaNxX:

Give birth , any guy who asks to abort his own baby isn't worth it.

But my friend has to support the baby on her own..

though the guy said that he will give "monthly maintenance fees"..but..being a jerk..he might stop those fees at any time also right?...

Originally posted by xiiaostarry:

my friend is still looking into the possibility of patching things up with this guy though...

silly right?..

she should go for abortion @ the current circumstances..but..she just simply can't bring herself to...so now..she's really in a dilemna at what path should she take?

Plan A : Abortion?

Plan B : give Birth?

I would go for Plan B cos I love children.

But I will also make sure someone go and snipe off the guy's ku ku jiao for good!

If i were a girl, and im realli not ready, i'd prolly abort it.
Don start flaming me yet aite. . I prolly don and will never know what it feels like to be a baby, but think of it this way.

If u let it go for adoption, imagine if the kid grows up one day and finds out. . It will prolly kill his mind. . It will somehow affect him negatively. .

Which is worst, to lose it before it even have a mind of its own, or to "throw" it away, knowing u were never ready??

Its best la if ur friend can keep the baby and take care of it.

But its gonna be a tough road. .

Originally posted by parn:

I would go for Plan B cos I love children.

But I will also make sure someone go and snipe off the guy's ku ku jiao for good!

any volunteers for the "snipe off the guy's ku ku jiao for good" plan?

*takes out notebook & write dwn names*

Originally posted by xiiaostarry:

 

any volunteers for the "snipe off the guy's ku ku jiao for good" plan?

*takes out notebook & write dwn names*

Chop it off !!

Originally posted by maskedangel:

If i were a girl, and im realli not ready, i'd prolly abort it.
Don start flaming me yet aite. . I prolly don and will never know what it feels like to be a baby, but think of it this way.

If u let it go for adoption, imagine if the kid grows up one day and finds out. . It will prolly kill his mind. . It will somehow affect him negatively. .

Which is worst, to lose it before it even have a mind of its own, or to "throw" it away, knowing u were never ready??

Its best la if ur friend can keep the baby and take care of it.

But its gonna be a tough road. .

i agreed with that "Which is worst, to lose it before it even have a mind of its own, or to "throw" it away, knowing u were never ready??"

they already have heart beat even if they r juz a foetus right? (anyway, that's what i remembered from Biology =x)

most probably..she will be taking plan A (from what i heard)..just felt pissed with that guy..

why does such jerks exist?

i still virgin

Originally posted by NG QIBO AARON AUBREY:

i still virgin

Who cares.

hi yan yan

Originally posted by thehappybunny:

hi yan yan

bunniiii

Originally posted by xiiaostarry:

i agreed with that "Which is worst, to lose it before it even have a mind of its own, or to "throw" it away, knowing u were never ready??"

they already have heart beat even if they r juz a foetus right? (anyway, that's what i remembered from Biology =x)

most probably..she will be taking plan A (from what i heard)..just felt pissed with that guy..

why does such jerks exist?

yeah, i do agree he's a jerk. .
He just wanna run away from it. .
considering his age is 20+, he should be able to handle it better, well, at least better than teens in those situations. . .

Originally posted by xiiaostarry:

can only say that my friend is naive..

now then i believe that those true life accounts under Dear Kelly in Teenage Magazines are real =.='''

Those rape and molestation cases were also real.

He's selfish.

Originally posted by NG QIBO AARON AUBREY:

i still virgin

Go and die like one please.

Originally posted by xiiaostarry:

i agreed with that "Which is worst, to lose it before it even have a mind of its own, or to "throw" it away, knowing u were never ready??"

they already have heart beat even if they r juz a foetus right? (anyway, that's what i remembered from Biology =x)

most probably..she will be taking plan A (from what i heard)..just felt pissed with that guy..

why does such jerks exist?

She will have the memory of aborting her baby, can she live with that ? .