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i can understand where TS coming from .. i am who i am today because i've been through that many rejections. to spite, will be your motivation, but when you get there, you'll be too happy with what you achieved to even care - that person who started your journey of self-improvement would by then be insignificant to you.
if you're thinking of doing something stupid like finding a chiobu to walk with you like couple, or to buy something flashy .. i tell u now, it won't do jackshit. because she doens't care. imagine, a really ugly girl confess to you, you say no, then the girl walk with a yandao, what's the first thought? "wah fuck, a handsome blind man, so rare!". so yea, improve yourself in the long run.
when i was in high sch, i liked at least a diff. girl every half year; every single one rejected me. back then, i was still young - baby fat all over, immature - in short, no looks, no brain, no charisma. thankfully, God must have taken pity given the many heartbreaks i went through, and i transformed with my efforts and his good grace - like extreme makeover like that. i started running, and the moment baby fat lost, everything else kinda fell in place .. my features actually v. pan-asian and sharp - didn't come through before because i was so fat. started studying really hard - stopped thinking of girls after i hit 16 and just focused on my getting that sports car and salary.
few months back, at 10yr high sch reunion, i met some of these girls. had a few laughs over how stupid i was then. next thing i knew, i received an sms from one of them saying she wished she saw "my character" yadah yadah bshit back then (i know it's shit because i spoke to her for what, 20mins? max.), and would like to try things out. when she told me that, i thought "YES! HAHA TOO BAD" but then it quickly went away, and i realised how the "hardships" i went through as a teenager shaped me today. quite frankly - she's not a girl i would even consider asking out on a date - not even ONS material, much less gf or possibily wife.
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Originally posted by jaezai2008:
i can understand where TS coming from .. i am who i am today because i've been through that many rejections. to spite, will be your motivation, but when you get there, you'll be too happy with what you achieved to even care - that person who started your journey of self-improvement would by then be insignificant to you.
if you're thinking of doing something stupid like finding a chiobu to walk with you like couple, or to buy something flashy .. i tell u now, it won't do jackshit. because she doens't care. imagine, a really ugly girl confess to you, you say no, then the girl walk with a yandao, what's the first thought? "wah fuck, a handsome blind man, so rare!". so yea, improve yourself in the long run.
when i was in high sch, i liked at least a diff. girl every half year; every single one rejected me. back then, i was still young - baby fat all over, immature - in short, no looks, no brain, no charisma. thankfully, God must have taken pity given the many heartbreaks i went through, and i transformed with my efforts and his good grace - like extreme makeover like that. i started running, and the moment baby fat lost, everything else kinda fell in place .. my features actually v. pan-asian and sharp - didn't come through before because i was so fat. started studying really hard - stopped thinking of girls after i hit 16 and just focused on my getting that sports car and salary.
few months back, at 10yr high sch reunion, i met some of these girls. had a few laughs over how stupid i was then. next thing i knew, i received an sms from one of them saying she wished she saw "my character" yadah yadah bshit back then (i know it's shit because i spoke to her for what, 20mins? max.), and would like to try things out. when she told me that, i thought "YES! HAHA TOO BAD" but then it quickly went away, and i realised how the "hardships" i went through as a teenager shaped me today. quite frankly - she's not a girl i would even consider asking out on a date - not even ONS material, much less gf or possibily wife.
Yup! What can't kill u makes u stronger. I been thru that and knows how it feels. Everybody think rejection is a total bad thing. Yes, the feeling sucks but it proves to be a important ingredient to make u have a stronger desire for yr future success..Turn negative into positive. TS, start character cultivating. Learn how to date but not for sake of revenge but making u a worthy partner and a great date!
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If you really treat her as a friend, why should you want to make her regret for rejecting you? Is this what friendship should be based on?
If you really treat her as a friend, forgive her. It might not be easy, but it proves how much you treasure the friendship, and that you don't mind being friends still.
She rejected you, so what? Look on the bright side and move on. It may not be your loss, it might be hers. Like what CannyOng said, what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger.
So cheer up and move on, there are better people out there :D
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Originally posted by featNIC:
So cheer up and move on, there are better people out there :D
TS, you know as well as i do that the world today is no realm of innocence. no one better is going to come unless you yourself get better. whether it means improving your standing in society, or your inner character, hell, even your looks. so improve yourself with the motivation to spite, and like Canny said, you will become stronger - by the time you get to a pos. of superiority (in whatever context), you will look back and realise the insignificance of what bothered you in the first place.
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Originally posted by jaezai2008:
i can understand where TS coming from .. i am who i am today because i've been through that many rejections. to spite, will be your motivation, but when you get there, you'll be too happy with what you achieved to even care - that person who started your journey of self-improvement would by then be insignificant to you.
if you're thinking of doing something stupid like finding a chiobu to walk with you like couple, or to buy something flashy .. i tell u now, it won't do jackshit. because she doens't care. imagine, a really ugly girl confess to you, you say no, then the girl walk with a yandao, what's the first thought? "wah fuck, a handsome blind man, so rare!". so yea, improve yourself in the long run.
when i was in high sch, i liked at least a diff. girl every half year; every single one rejected me. back then, i was still young - baby fat all over, immature - in short, no looks, no brain, no charisma. thankfully, God must have taken pity given the many heartbreaks i went through, and i transformed with my efforts and his good grace - like extreme makeover like that. i started running, and the moment baby fat lost, everything else kinda fell in place .. my features actually v. pan-asian and sharp - didn't come through before because i was so fat. started studying really hard - stopped thinking of girls after i hit 16 and just focused on my getting that sports car and salary.
few months back, at 10yr high sch reunion, i met some of these girls. had a few laughs over how stupid i was then. next thing i knew, i received an sms from one of them saying she wished she saw "my character" yadah yadah bshit back then (i know it's shit because i spoke to her for what, 20mins? max.), and would like to try things out. when she told me that, i thought "YES! HAHA TOO BAD" but then it quickly went away, and i realised how the "hardships" i went through as a teenager shaped me today. quite frankly - she's not a girl i would even consider asking out on a date - not even ONS material, much less gf or possibily wife.
high sch?
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Alamak.. kena rejected only want to piss people off ..
You think you Takeshi Kaneshiro issit ? Girls cannot reject you har ?
Please lah.
Rejection is part of your growing up. Learn to deal with it.
Now only kena rejected once.. still got a lot more rejection ahead before a girl say yes ,ok ?
Ask yourself.. how many girls you want to piss ? LOL.
The more you act like a jerk .. the more she is convinced she made the right choice rejecting you.
Edited by jojobeach 06 Oct `08, 3:20AM
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