http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/332503 en-US 60 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by hunky_boi:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>i have been rejected by a friend.. i wanna her to feel regret for rejecting me...</p> <p>wat should i do ???</p> </div> </blockquote> <p><br /> if this is wad u really think, thank god she didnt accept u</p> Wed, 08 Oct 2008 21:49:35 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:332503:8460581 jara http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/332503 <p>Is just a rejection only. Who never been rejected in life before? I have. I mean, is it really what you want for making one regret when one rejected you?</p> <p>Since being rejected, learn to deal with it. Find out what really the cause. Till this day, I'm still trying to win the girl heart I like. And is been two years plus I like her.</p> <p>I mean, to me, if she's happy, I am. It doesn't mean you need to be together, so you can love each other. As long the one you like is fine and sound. End of the day, what you want is to make her happy, not pissed or sad right?</p> <p>While you accomplish that, try to crave your way out, be someone in life.</p> <p>Remember, fate don't happen, is you, yourself, make fate happen. <img src="/images/emoticons/kde-3.5.8/set1/smile.png" alt= "smile.png" /></p> Mon, 06 Oct 2008 03:36:44 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:332503:8452776 toyota-corolla http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/332503 <p>Alamak.. kena rejected only want to piss people off ..</p> <p>You think you Takeshi Kaneshiro issit ? Girls cannot reject you har ?</p> <p>Please lah.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Rejection is part of your growing up. Learn to deal with it.</p> <p>Now only kena rejected once.. still got a lot more rejection ahead before a girl say yes ,ok ?</p> <p>Ask yourself.. how many girls you want to piss ? LOL.</p> <p>The more you act like a jerk .. the more she is convinced she made the right choice rejecting you.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> Mon, 06 Oct 2008 03:19:46 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:332503:8452767 jojobeach http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/332503 <p>u should not be feeling this way..</p> <p>Because she reject u and you want to make her feel bad.. that is evil</p> <p>you are her friend. just move on and continue to be her friend.</p> <p>But if you cannot take it, stay back for a while</p> Mon, 06 Oct 2008 03:09:53 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:332503:8452755 Sakuraflower http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/332503 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by jaezai2008:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p><br /> exactly. don't even care about exacting any revenge for past rejections because you'll be too bz hadning them out yourself.</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>lol! <img src="/images/emoticons/classic/icon_biggrin.gif" alt= "icon_biggrin.gif" /></p> Sat, 04 Oct 2008 20:40:29 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:332503:8449552 00king00 http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/332503 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by 00king00:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>grow up, get future, get $$, get status &gt;&gt; by then u won't hav to worry abt rejections anymore, let alone revenge for it</p> </div> </blockquote> <p><br /> exactly. don't even care about exacting any revenge for past rejections because you'll be too bz hadning them out yourself.</p> Sat, 04 Oct 2008 20:16:21 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:332503:8449517 jaezai2008 http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/332503 <p>grow up, get future, get $$, get status &gt;&gt; by then u won't hav to worry abt rejections anymore, let alone revenge for it</p> Sat, 04 Oct 2008 20:10:55 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:332503:8449502 00king00 http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/332503 <p>Living well without her is your best revenge</p> Sat, 04 Oct 2008 19:47:25 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:332503:8449476 ulquiorra87 http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/332503 <p>in brissy</p> Sat, 04 Oct 2008 17:16:07 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:332503:8449298 NG QIBO AARON AUBREY http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/332503 <p>in sydney</p> Sat, 04 Oct 2008 16:35:58 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:332503:8449219 jaezai2008 http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/332503 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by jaezai2008:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>i can understand where TS coming from .. i am who i am today because i've been through that many rejections. to spite, will be your motivation, but when you get there, you'll be too happy with what you achieved to even care - that person who started your journey of self-improvement would by then be insignificant to you.</p> <p>if you're thinking of doing something stupid like finding a chiobu to walk with you like couple, or to buy something flashy .. i tell u now, it won't do jackshit. because she doens't care. imagine, a really ugly girl confess to you, you say no, then the girl walk with a yandao, what's the first thought? "wah fuck, a handsome blind man, so rare!". so yea, improve yourself in the long run.</p> <p>when i was in high sch, i liked at least a diff. girl every half year; every single one rejected me. back then, i was still young - baby fat all over, immature&nbsp;- in short, no looks, no brain, no charisma. thankfully, God must have taken pity given the many heartbreaks i went through, and i transformed with my efforts&nbsp;and his good grace&nbsp;- like extreme makeover like that. i started running, and the moment baby fat lost, everything else kinda fell in place .. my features actually v. pan-asian and sharp - didn't come through before because i was so fat. started studying really hard - stopped thinking of girls after i hit 16 and just focused on my getting that sports car and salary.</p> <p>few months back, at 10yr high sch reunion, i met some of these girls. had a few laughs over how stupid i was then. next thing i knew, i received an sms from one of them saying she wished she saw "my character" yadah yadah bshit back then (i know it's shit because i spoke to her for what, 20mins? max.), and would like to try things out. when she told me that, i thought "YES! HAHA TOO BAD" but then it quickly went away, and i realised how the "hardships" i went through as a teenager shaped me today. quite frankly - she's not a girl i would even consider asking out on a date - not even ONS material, much less gf or possibily wife.</p> </div> </blockquote> <p><br /> high&nbsp;sch?</p> Sat, 04 Oct 2008 16:21:34 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:332503:8449179 rain-coat http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/332503 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by featNIC:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>So cheer up and move on, there are better people out there :D</p> </div> </blockquote> <p><br /> TS, you know as well as i do that the world today is no realm of innocence. no one better is going to come unless you yourself get better. whether it means improving your standing in society,&nbsp;or your inner character, hell, even your looks. so improve yourself with the motivation to spite, and like Canny said, you will become stronger - by the time you get to a pos. of superiority (in whatever context), you will look back and realise the insignificance of what bothered you in the first place.</p> Sat, 04 Oct 2008 15:43:53 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:332503:8449068 jaezai2008 http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/332503 <p>Revenge is a vicious cycle.</p> Sat, 04 Oct 2008 15:43:05 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:332503:8449067 seotiblizzard http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/332503 <p>If you really treat her as a friend, why should you want to make her regret for rejecting you? Is this what friendship should be based on?</p> <p>If you really treat her as a friend, forgive her. It might not be easy, but it proves how much you treasure the friendship, and that you don't mind being friends still.</p> <p>She rejected you, so what? Look on the bright side and move on. It may not be your loss, it might be hers. Like what CannyOng said, what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger.</p> <p>So cheer up and move on, there are better people out there :D</p> Sat, 04 Oct 2008 15:41:11 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:332503:8449061 featNIC http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/332503 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by jaezai2008:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>i can understand where TS coming from .. i am who i am today because i've been through that many rejections. to spite, will be your motivation, but when you get there, you'll be too happy with what you achieved to even care - that person who started your journey of self-improvement would by then be insignificant to you.</p> <p>if you're thinking of doing something stupid like finding a chiobu to walk with you like couple, or to buy something flashy .. i tell u now, it won't do jackshit. because she doens't care. imagine, a really ugly girl confess to you, you say no, then the girl walk with a yandao, what's the first thought? "wah fuck, a handsome blind man, so rare!". so yea, improve yourself in the long run.</p> <p>when i was in high sch, i liked at least a diff. girl every half year; every single one rejected me. back then, i was still young - baby fat all over, immature&nbsp;- in short, no looks, no brain, no charisma. thankfully, God must have taken pity given the many heartbreaks i went through, and i transformed with my efforts&nbsp;and his good grace&nbsp;- like extreme makeover like that. i started running, and the moment baby fat lost, everything else kinda fell in place .. my features actually v. pan-asian and sharp - didn't come through before because i was so fat. started studying really hard - stopped thinking of girls after i hit 16 and just focused on my getting that sports car and salary.</p> <p>few months back, at 10yr high sch reunion, i met some of these girls. had a few laughs over how stupid i was then. next thing i knew, i received an sms from one of them saying she wished she saw "my character" yadah yadah bshit back then (i know it's shit because i spoke to her for what, 20mins? max.), and would like to try things out. when she told me that, i thought "YES! HAHA TOO BAD" but then it quickly went away, and i realised how the "hardships" i went through as a teenager shaped me today. quite frankly - she's not a girl i would even consider asking out on a date - not even ONS material, much less gf or possibily wife.</p> </div> </blockquote> <p><br /> Yup! What can't kill u makes u stronger. I been thru that and knows how it feels. Everybody think rejection is a total bad thing. Yes, the feeling sucks but it proves to be a important ingredient to make u have a stronger desire for yr future success..</p> <p>Turn negative into positive. TS, start character cultivating. Learn how to date but not for sake of revenge but making u a worthy partner and a great date!</p> Sat, 04 Oct 2008 09:25:25 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:332503:8448340 CannyOng http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/332503 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by hunky_boi:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>i have been rejected by a friend.. i wanna her to feel regret for rejecting me...</p> <p>wat should i do ???</p> </div> </blockquote> <p><br /> Marry her Mother? <img src= "/images/emoticons/kde-3.5.8/redones/angel.png" alt= "angel.png" /></p> Sat, 04 Oct 2008 08:27:34 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:332503:8448301 parn http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/332503 <p>TS shld grow up...lol!</p> <p>Rejections isn't everything. At least you had the courage for it.</p> Sat, 04 Oct 2008 02:12:32 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:332503:8448151 Y_Shun http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/332503 <p>i can understand where TS coming from .. i am who i am today because i've been through that many rejections. to spite, will be your motivation, but when you get there, you'll be too happy with what you achieved to even care - that person who started your journey of self-improvement would by then be insignificant to you.</p> <p>if you're thinking of doing something stupid like finding a chiobu to walk with you like couple, or to buy something flashy .. i tell u now, it won't do jackshit. because she doens't care. imagine, a really ugly girl confess to you, you say no, then the girl walk with a yandao, what's the first thought? "wah fuck, a handsome blind man, so rare!". so yea, improve yourself in the long run.</p> <p>when i was in high sch, i liked at least a diff. girl every half year; every single one rejected me. back then, i was still young - baby fat all over, immature&nbsp;- in short, no looks, no brain, no charisma. thankfully, God must have taken pity given the many heartbreaks i went through, and i transformed with my efforts&nbsp;and his good grace&nbsp;- like extreme makeover like that. i started running, and the moment baby fat lost, everything else kinda fell in place .. my features actually v. pan-asian and sharp - didn't come through before because i was so fat. started studying really hard - stopped thinking of girls after i hit 16 and just focused on my getting that sports car and salary.</p> <p>few months back, at 10yr high sch reunion, i met some of these girls. had a few laughs over how stupid i was then. next thing i knew, i received an sms from one of them saying she wished she saw "my character" yadah yadah bshit back then (i know it's shit because i spoke to her for what, 20mins? max.), and would like to try things out. when she told me that, i thought "YES! HAHA TOO BAD" but then it quickly went away, and i realised how the "hardships" i went through as a teenager shaped me today. quite frankly - she's not a girl i would even consider asking out on a date - not even ONS material, much less gf or possibily wife.</p> Sat, 04 Oct 2008 02:06:37 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:332503:8448148 jaezai2008 http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/332503 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by XxYaNxX:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p><br /> She had her reasons, move on with life ...</p> </div> </blockquote> <p><br /> Judging from what TS said, she really have good reasons to :) Why make yourself unhappy trying&nbsp;to hurt someone who doesn't even care about you?</p> Sat, 04 Oct 2008 00:17:15 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:332503:8447988 asharae http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/332503 <p>grow up?</p> Fri, 03 Oct 2008 22:13:36 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:332503:8447713 gigabyte14 http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/332503 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by hunky_boi:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>i have been rejected by a friend.. i wanna her to feel regret for rejecting me...</p> <p>wat should i do ???</p> </div> </blockquote> <p><br /> She had her reasons, move on with life ...</p> Fri, 03 Oct 2008 22:09:13 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:332503:8447699 XxYaNxX http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/332503 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by BrUtUs:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p><br /> duno wat kind of person u r but u wan her to regret, go be a better man... be successful, be rich, be the man every woman will wanna bring home....</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>x2.. its a good ambition!</p> Fri, 03 Oct 2008 20:59:19 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:332503:8447527 DownAndOut http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/332503 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by hunky_boi:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>i have been rejected by a friend.. i wanna her to feel regret for rejecting me...</p> <p>wat should i do ???</p> </div> </blockquote> <p><br /> duno wat kind of person u r but u wan her to regret, go be a better man... be successful, be rich, be the man every woman will wanna bring home....</p> Fri, 03 Oct 2008 20:24:47 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:332503:8447453 BrUtUs http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/332503 <p>get rich, marry someone and throw money in her face lor</p> Fri, 03 Oct 2008 20:18:33 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:332503:8447445 thehappybunny http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/332503 <p>Why'd you wanna do that? Whats with the wanna her feel regret sentence for? she sure had her reasons for rejecting you.. ask yourself are you being too possesive in dating her?&nbsp; move on dude.</p> Fri, 03 Oct 2008 20:09:47 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:332503:8447437 Doubser http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/332503