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in today's world the line between being single and attached is quite blurred out... for example; you can hold a girl's hand, you can kiss her lips, both can say, "i love you", you can even have physical contact with her but you do not know when you can call the two of you a "couple".
i used to like a girl alot, dated her, held her hands and even had sex with her... i thought it's a couple thingy and presumed that we are a couple and i'm officially attached but when i contacted her the next day, she just told me we are still friends and thanks for everything...
so right now... when do we define that we are in a relationship?
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Originally posted by novelltie:
in today's world the line between being single and attached is quite blurred out... for example; you can hold a girl's hand, you can kiss her lips, both can say, "i love you", you can even have physical contact with her but you do not know when you can call the two of you a "couple".
i used to like a girl alot, dated her, held her hands and even had sex with her... i thought it's a couple thingy and presumed that we are a couple and i'm officially attached but when i contacted her the next day, she just told me we are still friends and thanks for everything...
so right now... when do we define that we are in a relationship?
When she open her mouth and say it...
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You were like me back then when I dated this singaporean girl. I thought we were an ideal couple and all, she loved me and I loved her. We met in 2006 through mutual friends and that following year in 2007, she changed, there was a lack of communication, whenever i can over to her or she came over to my place, all we did was have sex. She had something to tell me but she didn't tell me until 9 months later. thats when we broke up.
Just take it as a sex buddy or something that you had fun with.
Now is a different stage, I am happy with my current gf. At least there's communication among us rather than non and we get along just fine, and the sex is good too =)
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Originally posted by novelltie:
in today's world the line between being single and attached is quite blurred out... for example; you can hold a girl's hand, you can kiss her lips, both can say, "i love you", you can even have physical contact with her but you do not know when you can call the two of you a "couple".
i used to like a girl alot, dated her, held her hands and even had sex with her... i thought it's a couple thingy and presumed that we are a couple and i'm officially attached but when i contacted her the next day, she just told me we are still friends and thanks for everything...
so right now... when do we define that we are in a relationship?
It's when both of you and your other half declare that both of you are girlfriend and boyfriend ^__^
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Originally posted by novelltie:
i thought it was quite obvious that after "i love you" and sex, she's going to be my girlfriend?
u winner lor. shld be ask her to be ur gf first, then "i love you", then sex. when things happen the opposite way, it's usually not a good sign. life is not a hollywood movie. :/
u sound like u have feelings for her liao. i suggest u dun continue to be her f buddy. otherwise, jus end up having unrealistic expectations and hurting urself.
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Originally posted by asharae:
Possibly, she's waiting for the offical question. If she's not attached, don't hestitate to ask her. I think some girls didn't want to make an assumption in this case, for the sake of 'face' and not wanting to pressurize the guy into a relationship.
Good luck
but she said "thank you for everything"
also = thank you it's enough
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