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    36 posts since May '08
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    36 posts since May '08
    • girl girl girl, no girl will die meh...come on TS, do somethi more meanningful and get the girls come to you...Most SG girl can not make it one..(No offence)

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    36 posts since May '08
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    36 posts since May '08
    • cheaters..nothti to discuss..they r simply gd for nothi...pls dun do things against u conscience..i know somethi can be chated for a gd purpose..but if not pls dun chear..cos u will get no where...things come around and will go around...u cheat ppl, ppl will cheat u back...

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    36 posts since May '08
    • hi..i just accepted SIM-RMIT accountancy course...anyone here here same batch as me..4 aug 2008 intake? would like to know you guys first...maybe we can help each other..

      hope to hear from u all...
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    36 posts since May '08
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    36 posts since May '08
    • friend, dun ever change your goals or education plans over a guy/girl, its not worth it if anythi happen at the end of the day, then u will grumble over n over again.

      Go ahead to confess u love to him striaghtaway again..why not...go and persue your happiness. but bear in mind, touch wood..haha...if the result is not what u expected and u might lose the friendship, u must stress to him that you still wan the friendshipm if u two really canlt be an item. I;m sure he will more than willing to do cos you two r gd friends frm childhood.. so gd luck to you :)

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    36 posts since May '08
    • hi friend, i know is damn hard to get thro this period of time esp u ex ended u 5 yr of r/s. i found him is kinda not understanding enuff, why choose time to break up with you. Poor you, u must be suffering alot. i knw how u feel and exp right now...seriously, you take care...i can't help u much cos i dun even know u..but hopefully you can concentrate on u exam meanwhile...jia you!

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    36 posts since May '08
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    36 posts since May '08
    • learn to be strong...we can not control the world where we always wan it to be..but we can try to minimise the damage to the lowest..so bear in mind...if u r not wrong, the truth will prove everythi in the end.i know the process is hard but u will benefit alot in the end.

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    36 posts since May '08
    • bro, all the best to u and best wishes to her too. that;s life bro. Live u life to the fullest so pls remove such thinking from you forever and ever for the sake of both of u families.

       

      cheerz

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    36 posts since May '08
    • its not illegal to keep a child without marriage in sg, provide u r in above 18. i;m not very sure in china but think most probably can not, the question is who will know as china is so big.

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    36 posts since May '08
    • Originally posted by Angel Danger:

      ^^ So fast your ex got new bf again?!


      yeah. i found out from her friendster. sent many loving and sweet testi and

      message like miss you, kiss you and love you with all her heart to that guy. the

      same old tricks that attract me last time. the guys like me will fall for it cos we are

      too long not in r/s and someone is showering you with lots of care and love. the guy

      will slowly trap inside.

      Now she and that guys are happily together, while me down there keep thinking

      about her. hai...why i'm behaving like a kid...i should just dump all the things about

      her behind  me and move on with my life rite..but its just kinda hard for me..one

      weeks plus past already..but me still haven accept the fact fully and all my close

      friends have scolded me and stopped me for being a such a fool..but i'm keep

      disappoint them...i really hope this period of time will past faster and let me forget

      her completely...

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    36 posts since May '08
    • Originally posted by chazzprinceton:

      omg ur situation same as mine...just that my ex gf is 15 years old -_-

      but i still love her alot till now...even though she had bf...

      its been 7 months since our relationship ended lols..

      so coincidence. me older than u by alot but i feel there love is no age boundary.

      she gonna hve her new bf soon( that one she went out with last time while she still

      with me) what to do...move on ba that's what most ppl will say..ya i trying hard

      now...

      hope u r doing fine too chazzprinceton.

  • HuaGe's Avatar
    36 posts since May '08
    • its all up to you man to decide..but there is no las stating that u have to take care of her family after marrying your wife...you, as the her husband you can help them with u difficulties if you are able to afford provided not let u own family in hunger...but as for ppl from developing countries....their thinking is like when their daughter married to a rich family i mean compare to your wife family...they expectting more contribution from you in this case...so try help them if u can...but must talk to wife cos i'm sure she knows the financial status of your own family...communicate with u wife and her families members....

      hope these help you

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    36 posts since May '08
    • Originally posted by xiiaostarry:

      don't mind me asking..

      how old is ur ex-gf?

      as in..she shd still be quite young bah..her thinking sounds naive to me..hopping around guys while she already has you..

      anyway..cheer up~ there are much more better gals out there =)


      she is 21, me 24..she already working...maybe the thinking still immature.

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    36 posts since May '08
    • Originally posted by Hanagata:

      is a good thing for you that you are back to single...

      your ex-gf is not worth your time...

       

      I really think so now...guys u know what she did to her friendster...she deleted all the testi i wrote to her last time and change the status to single immediately that night i broke up with her.. the feeling is like...sian...she is totally stranger to me now...i feeling like deleted her as friend and block her in MSN....should i?

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    36 posts since May '08
    • what a sad story from your point of view..but not that anymore if it is from her bf's view...you are the destroyer ..you r the third party...and pls do not let ppl label you as third party..it is XXXXXX.. u know what i mean....i broke up with my gf cos of third party...i know ppl might think that our r/s not strong enuff...but sometimes we canlt help it...if it is not stable then let it part by itself..we dun need third one to do for us....pls let it cool for sometimes..and she still think of you and miss you..think she will do somethi to her r/s and eventually she might end up together with you...if she not miss you and contact..think she is just need someone for emotional support cos of her bf in NS right now...that is not love anymore...think twice of what you can do right now...think of the consequenses if u do anythi silly now..u might hurting her instead of loving in the end...

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    36 posts since May '08
    • thanks alot ppl for your response and comsolation...i feeling much better now...way to go..:)

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    36 posts since May '08
    • Originally posted by Zarks:


      I believe shes just cheating u. Wtf with some1 who feel pressure and simply break up ? lol. its more like she knew other guy ya. What a stupid excuse that she gave u. Even if its the truth, dont u feel glad that shes the play-play type in r/s, doesnt want to get too serious in r/s ? If i were u, i should be glad. One day u will realise that.

      check properly what's wrong with the r/s...dun simply think so naive that she needs a break or somethi..she might be cheating on u....i totally agree with Zark..if she did..just move on with u life..u definitely deserve someone better than her...

  • HuaGe's Avatar
    36 posts since May '08
    • how u know u suffer from depression in the first place ? have seen any doctor before? i think u r just feeling stress but not depression...

      what u friends said to you r the correct things..most of ppl will said that too...but u r right they have their own life and you claim that u need someone by u side in order to justify u presence..that;s what i think u said u need someone by u side...i not sure how close u and u family member are..maybe its time to talk to your family member and i;m sure they will by u side all the time....

      u need some moment to settle the toks in u mind now...i advice u to talk to u doctor if u think u can;t control u stress now and pls restrain uself from work..take a long break to find u own soul back first...

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    36 posts since May '08
    • Originally posted by setokaiba:

      I duno how serious is my depression. I am not on medication either.

      I tried to find someone to talk to but it seems I really need someone to be by my side for a long time. Everyone has their life, even the best of friends. They cant be by me for a long time.

      Yes, you are right. I need emotional support now. Alot of them. But I am sad to say, I could not find much from my best friends. I called 3 of them. 2 of them could not comfort me and told me what normal people would say like move on, there is life, be strong. I dont really find emotional support from these. 1 other who is slightly better but was busy with things so could not talk to me much.

      how u know u suffer from depression in the first place ? have seen any doctor before? i think u r just feeling stress but not depression...

      what u friends said to you r the correct things..most of ppl will said that too...but u r right they have their own life and you claim that u need someone by u side in order to justify u presence..that;s what i think u said u need someone by u side...i not sure how close u and u family member are..maybe its time to talk to your family member and i;m sure they will by u side all the time....

      u need some moment to settle the toks in u mind now...i advice u to talk to u doctor if u think u can;t control u stress now and pls restrain uself from work..take a long break to find u own soul back first...

       

  • HuaGe's Avatar
    36 posts since May '08
    • ya...i feeling alot more better than last night...but there are still left somethi in my heart..its some kind of strange feeling which i dunno how to decribe it...really have to so many ppl who have gave me advice..i tok i so stupid to dump her instead of giving me and her another chance...my heart tells me to give another chance but my brain stop her from doing that...cos i think of things she did to me..its so unfair and its so unfaithful to me...anyway...that;s why i know how that guy feel in other thread..glad that i have doing better and able to advise him to brace up himself...